This is one thing we all fear the most. Nothing hurts our hearts (and our pride) when girls cheat on us. It’s fucked up, and it’s totally unnecessary. We aren’t always in the receiving end though as guys cheat as well. Regardless of who does it, it’s still a really fucked up thing to do. We might not agree on whether or not it’s okay to cheat, but one thing that we can agree on is that it’s meaning is different for everyone. What exactly is cheating?

Cheating is..

Cheating, to me, constitutes action. If I’m with a girl, and she thought about some other guy, I’d hate it and break up with her because she just isn’t into me. However, if she acted on her thoughts, then it’s time to add that whore to the wall of shame.

Not just thinking..

What do I mean by “acting” on it? Action. If she touched another guy sexually or held his hands intimately, it’s cheating. Does it sound extreme? Yes. Most people draw the line at kissing, but think about it: if your girl is caressing another dude’s chest, or has her fingers on his lips, or even grabs his junk, would you be okay with that? They sure as hell weren’t kissing, but they sure as hell aren’t regular friends either. I’m sure you would flip a couple of shits.

That goes for dudes as well. There isn’t a double standard. You do the same thing above (sucks for you if your girl has a junk) and I’ll take you to court and testify against you. You’re definitely cheating, bro.

What’s NOT cheating..

Having said all that, I don’t believe thinking about somebody else or finding someone else attractive is cheating. Bricks are shat when girls find out that you find their friend cute or when you check out other girls. Guys get upset just like that as well. Imagine your girl was talking to the hunky personal trainer at the gym and she was telling him about you; you’d probably want her to just shut up about him.

Bottom line is that there’s a lot of things girls (or even guys) don’t like to hear, but that doesn’t mean anything was going on. It’s also a sign of insecurity on both sides, something that should really be worked on. Like I said, I believe cheating starts at action, regardless of how small. We all think of stupid ideas or have certain fantasies here and there, but as long as you (or they) don’t really act on it, then it’s fair game. Yeah, it sucks but deal with it.

Don’t do it. Ever.

Don’t cheat because you don’t want to be cheated on. It hurts like a bitch, and it only brings pain and suffering. Real men don’t cheat. That only shows that you’re too pussy to either make a commitment or weren’t man enough to break up with her when you should have. Have you gotten cheated on? Fuck her, she’ll get what’s coming. Worry about making yourself a better person. Eye for an eye doesn’t solve anything nor does it make anybody happy.

What do you consider cheating?