Comments on: How Gym and Gaining Muscle Improves Your Life http://www.themanrevolution.com/diet-exercise/how-gym-and-gaining-muscle-improves-your-life/ Style, dating, health and life tips and advice for men. Mon, 22 Aug 2011 05:39:17 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: tom http://www.themanrevolution.com/diet-exercise/how-gym-and-gaining-muscle-improves-your-life/comment-page-1/#comment-330 tom Tue, 22 Feb 2011 22:41:43 +0000 http://www.themanrevolution.com/?p=498#comment-330 This comment is a couple months too late for its purpose. It is directed at Cameron. I have the impression that you over-analyze your social experiences. You seem to be more introverted then extroverted. This is important: it is impossible to know what someone is thinking. You must ask them. It is in your own mind that you think you are a "meathead". You must believe in your own mind what you truly are. When you think someone is judging you, you are actually judging yourself on one of your insecurities. Randomly walk up to someone and ask them what they think of you. These will all be judgments. They do not know you until they know you. Solution: be happy, be positive. Humans live in their own heads. If you aren't talking, you are thinking; so think less and talk more! Remember, never judge yourself and never assume you know what others are thinking. To others, you are: -what you look like -what you sound like -what you feel like -what you smell like -what you taste like -how they remember you -what they have heard about you YOU ARE A HUMAN, GO GET THE GIRL YOU WANT AND BE HAPPY BEFORE YOU DIE! Enjoy these sporadic thoughts. Cheers, Tom This comment is a couple months too late for its purpose. It is directed at Cameron.

I have the impression that you over-analyze your social experiences. You seem to be more introverted then extroverted.

This is important: it is impossible to know what someone is thinking. You must ask them. It is in your own mind that you think you are a “meathead”. You must believe in your own mind what you truly are. When you think someone is judging you, you are actually judging yourself on one of your insecurities.

Randomly walk up to someone and ask them what they think of you. These will all be judgments. They do not know you until they know you.

Solution: be happy, be positive. Humans live in their own heads. If you aren’t talking, you are thinking; so think less and talk more!

Remember, never judge yourself and never assume you know what others are thinking.

To others, you are:
-what you look like
-what you sound like
-what you feel like
-what you smell like
-what you taste like
-how they remember you
-what they have heard about you

YOU ARE A HUMAN, GO GET THE GIRL YOU WANT AND BE HAPPY BEFORE YOU DIE!

Enjoy these sporadic thoughts.

Cheers,
Tom

]]> By: Cameron http://www.themanrevolution.com/diet-exercise/how-gym-and-gaining-muscle-improves-your-life/comment-page-1/#comment-312 Cameron Sun, 08 Aug 2010 21:50:29 +0000 http://www.themanrevolution.com/?p=498#comment-312 Coming from the vantage point of someone who was once fat and is now quite fit and muscular, I will let you in on the unfortunate circumstance that you will attract more women, but you will more than likely detract from the quality of person you are attracting. When a woman looks at me now, the majority see an attractive body, but also apply the stigma of lesser intelligence ("meathead" would be a good term for the stereotype). I may have shallow, attractive women fondling my arms, and the confidence that I gained from my physical transformation is a boon, but I am essentially in the same place from an emotional stand point as I was when I was over weight. Women notice me, but don't bother with me because they think I'm stupid (I'm not by the way, 3.9 GPA at the best University in Canada). Solutions? Coming from the vantage point of someone who was once fat and is now quite fit and muscular, I will let you in on the unfortunate circumstance that you will attract more women, but you will more than likely detract from the quality of person you are attracting. When a woman looks at me now, the majority see an attractive body, but also apply the stigma of lesser intelligence (“meathead” would be a good term for the stereotype). I may have shallow, attractive women fondling my arms, and the confidence that I gained from my physical transformation is a boon, but I am essentially in the same place from an emotional stand point as I was when I was over weight. Women notice me, but don’t bother with me because they think I’m stupid (I’m not by the way, 3.9 GPA at the best University in Canada). Solutions?

]]> By: Adrian http://www.themanrevolution.com/diet-exercise/how-gym-and-gaining-muscle-improves-your-life/comment-page-1/#comment-124 Adrian Sun, 04 Oct 2009 19:33:04 +0000 http://www.themanrevolution.com/?p=498#comment-124 Alex Kay, thanx! You have a great blog ;) Alex Kay, thanx! You have a great blog ;)

]]> By: Alex Kay http://www.themanrevolution.com/diet-exercise/how-gym-and-gaining-muscle-improves-your-life/comment-page-1/#comment-121 Alex Kay Tue, 22 Sep 2009 18:42:22 +0000 http://www.themanrevolution.com/?p=498#comment-121 So true Adrian, thanks for the post! So true Adrian, thanks for the post!

]]> By: Adrian http://www.themanrevolution.com/diet-exercise/how-gym-and-gaining-muscle-improves-your-life/comment-page-1/#comment-112 Adrian Tue, 01 Sep 2009 20:45:25 +0000 http://www.themanrevolution.com/?p=498#comment-112 Every man should be as strong as he can! I think so... Every man should be as strong as he can! I think so…

]]> By: TheManRevolution http://www.themanrevolution.com/diet-exercise/how-gym-and-gaining-muscle-improves-your-life/comment-page-1/#comment-111 TheManRevolution Tue, 01 Sep 2009 01:43:17 +0000 http://www.themanrevolution.com/?p=498#comment-111 Oh most definitely not! I also just want to get strong. I dont want the biggest biceps or the tonest abs, I just want to be hardcore strong! Oh most definitely not! I also just want to get strong. I dont want the biggest biceps or the tonest abs, I just want to be hardcore strong!

]]> By: Adrian http://www.themanrevolution.com/diet-exercise/how-gym-and-gaining-muscle-improves-your-life/comment-page-1/#comment-110 Adrian Mon, 31 Aug 2009 20:14:25 +0000 http://www.themanrevolution.com/?p=498#comment-110 True, that is biggest motivator for most people probably. It's just not always enough... True, that is biggest motivator for most people probably. It’s just not always enough…

]]> By: TheManRevolution http://www.themanrevolution.com/diet-exercise/how-gym-and-gaining-muscle-improves-your-life/comment-page-1/#comment-109 TheManRevolution Mon, 31 Aug 2009 18:06:44 +0000 http://www.themanrevolution.com/?p=498#comment-109 Agreed, body building isn't so much of a competition for me as it's a hobby that I enjoy doing. Plus, everybody wants to look good :) Agreed, body building isn’t so much of a competition for me as it’s a hobby that I enjoy doing.

Plus, everybody wants to look good :)

]]> By: Adrian http://www.themanrevolution.com/diet-exercise/how-gym-and-gaining-muscle-improves-your-life/comment-page-1/#comment-108 Adrian Fri, 28 Aug 2009 10:25:10 +0000 http://www.themanrevolution.com/?p=498#comment-108 Lifting weights doesn't mean you must compete. It's a passion for me too. ;) Cheers Lifting weights doesn’t mean you must compete. It’s a passion for me too. ;)

Cheers

]]> By: Walter http://www.themanrevolution.com/diet-exercise/how-gym-and-gaining-muscle-improves-your-life/comment-page-1/#comment-107 Walter Fri, 28 Aug 2009 00:32:22 +0000 http://www.themanrevolution.com/?p=498#comment-107 I have a passion for body building, but not for competition purposes but for the very reason you have stated above. It makes me feel good about myself and I look good with fitting dresses. :-) I have a passion for body building, but not for competition purposes but for the very reason you have stated above.

It makes me feel good about myself and I look good with fitting dresses. :-)

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