Comments on: Talking to Women: The Contents of Conversation

By: TheManRevolution

TheManRevolution — Thu, 23 Jul 2009 05:24:58 +0000

I think you’re misunderstanding what I said. You have the right idea about being diverse, but telling her that she’s beautiful is just more of the same.

Here, I wrote a post on complimenting effectively: http://www.themanrevolution.com/communication/how-to-compliment-a-girl-effectively-and-really-get-her-attention/

By: Brent G

Brent G — Thu, 23 Jul 2009 02:47:37 +0000

Yeaah totally, My way of saying a compliment
is only once a day or week if I see her often OR once somewhere in the conversation if we have a long one. Never at the start, unless I REALLY can start the conversation with that. Also, I always try my best by saying it without being simple. Simple can be good but really its boring and what you said, they are tired of hearing that. Being diverse can really seprate you from all the boring annoying guys she has met. To make first impressions, thats what you want. The way you can say a compliment can seriously make wonders. But it always depends on how and when you say it. However, gotta say saying beautiful is good. Hot, sexy and cute has been said way to much, beautiful is the next best thing.

By: TheManRevolution

TheManRevolution — Thu, 23 Jul 2009 01:54:31 +0000

Yes, that’s a great idea as well! Like I said earlier, PAY ATTENTION TO HER! She’s a goldmine of ideas!

If you’re gonna compliment a girl, do it on something subtle. She’s tired of hearing that she has nice eyes or that she’s beautiful. Tell her something she hasn’t heard or something that only she thought she’d notice.

Hmm, I think I have an idea for a new post now!

By: Brent G

Brent G — Thu, 23 Jul 2009 01:43:36 +0000

Beautifully done.
I also think after you started talking about a topic like dancing, and don’t know what else to talk about and there is a few seconds of silence after that topic has ended, remember other subjects she mentioned. Like she might mention what music she loves to dance too, even though it was like a short second she said that, you can start a whole new conversation about the music she liked to dance to.
But, how can you not put in a compilment and then try to be postive. Shouldn’t compliments invite the girl into having a conversation sometimes??

By: TheManRevolution

TheManRevolution — Sun, 12 Jul 2009 04:48:03 +0000

There have been so many times when a girl would be so excited about something and I’d just say “Oh, awesome.” Girls really take that as disinterest and they get quite bummed and there you go, a lost potential.

Guys are too busy thinking of what to say than to actually listen to them. Girls give a ridiculous amount of clues that are usually ignored, which is pitiful.

By: Anthony Parkes

Anthony Parkes — Sat, 11 Jul 2009 14:45:34 +0000

I think you nailed it – it’s important to be interested in what she has to say, and to truly listen to her.

What you say about avoiding closed statements is particularly true. She will think you’re not interested and not listening. Ouch.

This is an excellent post, lots of great tips.