Admitting mistakes is hard to do, but once you overcome it, you’ll be rewarded with growth and development.
“Learn from your mistakes!”
You’ve heard it all your life, but how many of you truly listened to that statement? How many times have you really fucked something up and actually learned from it? Rather, how many times have you done something wrong and blamed it on something else? The difference between growing and staying stagnant is the ability to admit to your mistakes and learning from them.
Exercise personal responsibility.
It’s hard, really, to accept responsibility for anything. I know I’ve had a lot of trouble with this and still do to some degree. Thing is that, unless it was absolutely out of your control, you’ve played some part in what you screwed up on. This doesn’t mean you should put yourself on some endless guilt trip because that won’t solve anything. Instead, accept and admit that you did mess up.
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Real friends contribute a lot more than just fun in your life.
There are a couple of things that I’m extremely thankful for in my life. I’m thankful for my family and the wonderful friends that I have. My friends have had a strong impression on me and my character. Like any good group of friends, we’ve taught each other many things and in turn have learned many important things as well.
Your problems aren’t as serious as you make them out to be.
It’s an awful habit that we make mountains out of mole hills, but sometimes we just can’t help it. We just get so hurt and affected by something that it seems like the world is about to end. Truth is, it’s nowhere near as serious as we blow it up to be.
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Change is possible, and it can be wonderful.
You’ve got dating problems. Great. You go to your friends for advice and what do they say? The same bad advice: “Just be yourself, man! If she doesn’t appreciate that, screw her.” And guess what? You keep following that advice, expect yourself to never get a chick.
Consider this: you’re having girl problems because you ARE yourself. Think, if you’re always “yourself” like the whole world suggests, why do you keep having girl problems? Men need to stop this arrogant and ultimately stupid way of thinking, which goes along the lines of “I’m perfect and she has to accept EVERYTHING about me or else she’s not right for me.” The fact of the matter is that you need to evaluate yourself and fix things.
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Like real men, cats just don’t give a fuck.
Animals are pretty rad. What’s even better is that they can seriously fill a niche in your life that you may or may not have needed filled. Many people just won’t bother with pets, but from my own experiences with my 3 month old kitten, I can say that owning one can give you a wonderful sense of fulfillment, and create a lot of joy in your life.
Companionship
We in general cannot survive without companionship. Love is something that we are entitled to, and pets such as dogs love unconditionally. Your pet can also be the much needed remedy to loneliness. They may not respond back to you but they will be there when you need an audience or just a much needed cuddle. Pets give you a feeling of purpose since they give you…
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