Be fresh–a date doesn’t have to be dinner and a movie. This guy knows that which is why he’s getting some.
I’m extremely picky when it comes to girls and I used to be what you would call a serial dater. There are certain qualities I expect from women and if she can’t impress me in the first few dates, I lose interest rather fast. You can find out a lot about a girl on just the first date. Sadly, there are plenty of guys that jump into a relationship without ever dating, and for the most part, those relationships fall apart rather quickly. Dating is extremely important and it shouldn’t be overlooked.
I had a friend who jumped into a relationship based only on the fact that the girl had a crush on him. That’s all it took. No quality time together, no dating, nothing. Over time, he began to realize that he had absolutely nothing in common with the girl at all and realized he got himself into a huge mess. He ended up breaking up with her. Had he bothered to try and gotten to know her better, he wouldn’t have wasted his time and instead, they could just have been friends. In this situation, they both lose.
Girls do laugh like this when you’re silly.
A friend of mine wrote an excellent post on how to be flirting master and he mentioned utilizing “obvious lies”, which really caught my eye. Girls love exaggerations—this is a fact. When done well and not ridiculously, your girl won’t stop having fun.
I exaggerate all the time–more than I should sometimes. Exaggerations are cool because it allows you to break out of reality for a little bit. They’re (usually) funny and girls LOVE to laugh hysterically. It also shows that you like to have fun and aren’t always stern and serious as a lot of guys these days. The best part is that they’re obviously lies and she understands that as well which opens up a ton of potential for back and forths.
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Important goals, like this fucking puzzle, is hard to complete but also like this fucking puzzle, absolutely doable.
Starting stuff is really easy. You sit around one day and you ponder and BAM! A great new idea comes into your head and you want to get started right then and there. Problem is, as easy as it is to start something, procrastination eventually kicks in and we never accomplish about 98% of the things we want to do.
Do you know how long I’ve been planning this blog? For about a year now. How long did the actual labor take for the site to go live? Probably no more than 6 hours.
So why the fuck did it take me this long for something that shouldn’t have taken more than a day to accomplish? I got lazy. Laziness and procrastination are probably two of the most sinister forces I’m still fighting against today, but never fear: you can win the battle.
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Change is possible, and it can be wonderful.
You’ve got dating problems. Great. You go to your friends for advice and what do they say? The same bad advice: “Just be yourself, man! If she doesn’t appreciate that, screw her.” And guess what? You keep following that advice, expect yourself to never get a chick.
Consider this: you’re having girl problems because you ARE yourself. Think, if you’re always “yourself” like the whole world suggests, why do you keep having girl problems? Men need to stop this arrogant and ultimately stupid way of thinking, which goes along the lines of “I’m perfect and she has to accept EVERYTHING about me or else she’s not right for me.” The fact of the matter is that you need to evaluate yourself and fix things.
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Compliment well and effectively and this’ll be you in no time.
We all know that girls care the most about, well, themselves. They like to hear how good they look, how funny they are, how much you’re attracted to them and so forth. They are also tired of hearing the same shit over and over again. They know they’re beautiful. They know they have nice eyes.
They look at the mirror 57453 times during the day so they’re quite aware of these mindblowing observations you’re making. I’m not saying you shouldn’t compliment them anymore. I’m telling you that if you want to get their attention quickly and really get them hooked, learn to compliment effectively.
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